Saturday, 6 July 2013

My first year of University + advice (Part 1)

Last week I moved out of my university halls, which was pretty sad as it was the first place I've ever lived without any parents, and had to face the world of independence, which really means a life of no money and wishing you could cook more than pasta. Nevertheless it was probably the best year of my life so far, as it's allowed me to get out of my comfort zone, meet new and interesting people I would never have met and allowed myself to grow. 

Before I started in September, I spent the summer excitingly waiting for the day to arrive (although when it did I was so nervous I wanted to turn the car back round and go home). I spent so much time on the internet reading about other peoples experiences, so I would have an idea of what to expect. I asked on my previous posts if anybody would be interested in hearing about my experience, and got a few replies, so hopefully you'll enjoy this! 

I just want to say, obviously your experience may not be at all similar to mine, but I thought I would include a few ideas/tips which may be beneficial for you to have a great first year. I generally did the 'typical' university experience, by moving far away from home and knowing nobody! As well as living in halls and being self-catered, which meant food shopping and not knowing how to cook anything that doesn't come in a packet!


Feeling comfortable in your new surroundings

So this is (was) my bedroom! The first photo was when I first moved in, the 2nd one is after about a week, then the big one was after a month when I got everything sorted. I think the best thing you can do is make your room has homely as you possible can. I spent the first month with a bedroom like the two top photos, and I just hated being in there. There were boxes everywhere and I just didn't feel at home. After a while I got my things sorted, put posters up and shoved the old boxes under my bed and it made me actually want to spend time in my new room. 

A lot of my friends filled their walls with photos from home, to make their rooms more homely. You could even buy cushions, rugs, and fairy lights, anything to make your room exactly how you want it. Get creative! 

Here is my kitchen! I thought I would include a few kitchen shots just so you can have a nosey at the flat. The picture on the right is from Halloween which is why we have a skull banner up, although I wish that stayed up all year, how goth! (The cupboard on the far right was mine if you wanted to know!)

There was eight of us in the flat, which is why the kitchen is pretty massive. If you are put in a flat with lots of people, I would suggest buying plates and cutlery which you would recognise as your own. I brought flowery plates and bowls, and my cutlery had black handles so I could distinguish it was mine. A lot of my flatmates brought plain white stuff so they never knew whos was whos! I would also recommend buying cheap kitchenware in case it gets smashed throughout the year, quite a few of my things either got smashed or lost. Ikea is always a good idea, my plates were about £1.50 each from there! (Any excuse to go to Ikea!) 

Freshers 

Now, I don't really remember much about that week but I guess it must have been great ha. For me, freshers was just a whole week of being drunk. It definitely made making friends a lot easier haha. Of course, if you don't drink you will still have a great time, meeting loads of different people from all over the world and getting to know your new surroundings. 

Freshers week is a week filled with different social events just to make the 'settling in' part a lot easier. I would suggest making an effort in these events, as this is when everyone starts to meet each other and become friends, you don't wanna be left behind! This was the week I made my three best friends in my flat. There were a few people in the flat who didn't make much of an effort in freshers week, so everyone got really close without them, which is pretty sad. Although don't worry if you don't click with the people you live with, there will be loads of people around you. Your new best buds may be on your course or live in a different building. I lived in a building of 40 people, on a street with four other student buildings! There are people everywhere! 

Here are two photos from the most memorable nights of my freshers week, (not including a photo of me passed out by a toilet, which I just don't think is blog worthy). The first picture is of course... Duncan James from Blue! Him and Simon Webb were doing a DJ set in the club next door to us (yes, we lived next door to a club, pretty handy hey). I didn't get to speak to either of them, but the best thing was my friend threw up in front of them, it was hilarious. 

The second photo is Alex Zane, from pop world and more recently rude tube. He was doing a DJ set too, and I actually got to speak to him quite a lot. We were talking about The Smiths and he was telling me how his favourite band is Terrorvision. We even had a little jig together, and he called me cheeky! All well and good until security made me leave, booo! 

This post has started to get very long! So I'm going to split them up into parts, and the next one will be up in a couple of days. If you do have any questions, please leave them in the comments and I'll be sure to answer them in the next one :)


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  1. Such a good idea for a post - looks like you had a great year! I'm going to university in September and although I won't be living in halls I'll be using your tips to make my flat a lot more homely :) Thanks!

    Sophie xo | That's What Sophie Said

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  2. Thanks for doing this post lovely, can't wait to read the rest. I'm so excited about moving out but lately I've been getting more and more upset that I'm leaving my best friend behind. I know everyone says I'll make new friends and stuff, but I just wish I could see her more often, we're so close! :(

    tie-dye-eyes

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    1. I was really worried about this too! But for me, the terms went so quickly and before you know it I was back home for Christmas seeing everyone. Plus you could always try and visit each other

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  3. your blog is so lovely, cannot believe i've just found it! although i'm no where near going to university, i found this post so interesting and lovely, and it has definitely made me want to go in years to come! xx

    sometimesophie.blogspot.com

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    1. Ah thank you :) I would highly recommend the experience to anyone, just because it really allows you to get out of your shell and experience being independent, without just going straight into a job after school

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  4. I agree with how important it is to make an effort at the beginning. I met some of my bestest friends at uni. Also, I can't believe how much your hair has grown in the last year, it looks so short in that picture of you and your friends in the mirror.

    xx

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    1. Yeah that is probably the most important piece of advice to anyone who is going, just because I witnessed so many people who didn't make the effort, and never really got close with anyone. Plus, if I didn't make the friends I made, I wouldn't have had the same amazing experience, and it would have probably been very dull without them!

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  5. thank you so much for doing this post! I am going to uni in september after having a gap year and I am actually bricking myself i am so scared but this has helped me so thanks again :) lovely blog, following! x
    http://theadventuresofhann.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. Aw I'm glad it has helped. I was so nervous at first, especially driving down there, but as soon as I met everyone I felt so much more comfortable

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  6. College is the best. Enjoy every moment! x

    Melissa
    http://wildflwrchild.blogspot.com

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  7. It's lovely of you to do a post like this - I wish I'd done a bit more research myself before starting a few years ago! I'm glad you had a fab year though =) Thank you for your lovely comment xxx

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    1. Before I left for uni I spend ages reading about other peoples experiences, so I guess this is my way of helping others who are nervous, or just want to know what to expect, but I everyones experiences are different.

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  8. Super exciting! I will be staring soon. I get my keys to my room next month xxx

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  9. I really miss uni and wish i made the most of my first year! This is a great post for all those who are going to uni this year! x

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  10. Cute post - I just moved out of halls too, hated my room though cuz it was bright yellow, people think I'm exaggerating when I tell them just how yellow but I'm not joking when I say it was like living in a banana :P
    I think everyone has different experiences at uni so it's really difficult to give advice... for me nothing was as I expected it to be, freshers was terrible, my flatmates never left their rooms and I eventually got diagnosed with depression. I didn't make any friends until after Christmas but I met them through societies and by turning up to things I shouldn't have (ie. other people's lessons cuz I was 'lost') haha.
    Glad you had fun with your first year, your room looks adorable, look forward to reading the rest of your posts! x

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    1. It's a shame that your first year wasn't how you would have liked it. It's difficult to give advice as nearly all the aspects of everyone's experiences at uni will be different, but here is my take of it. I know so many people who were put into flats where nobody spoke to each other, or they just didn't get on, so I think it's all about finding people who you can be comfortable with, having good friends really makes any experience a lot better.

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  11. Aw I miss uni so so much! I absolutely loved it when I moved into halls, it's such a daunting task but it's amazing once you've finally done it! I would love to go back, I'm 23 now so graduating a few years a go but you really will love it. Make the most of it while you can!xx


    Abby | Beauty and a Blogger

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